Walking away creates attraction and respect
Walking away creates attraction and respect. This was one of the hardest and also easiest things I ever learned while going through my learning phase of women and red pill awareness
It’s difficult because the simplicity behind walking away is almost too easy. It’s as simple as that… just walk away from people that don’t value or respect you!
Walking away is extremely effective with women because throughout the relationship she lost attraction and respect for you over time. When someone loses attraction to you it’s important to show you understand how she feels as well as work on the things you know you should work on
Many guys that I do coaching with will just walk away and then ask me ” ok I’ve walked away now when I can expect her to call/text me”
There is a correct way to walk away with respect and dignity while maintaining your masculine frame as best as possible.
When she asks for space
Women will often ask for space when deciding if they want to be with you or not. They are literally willing to give up on you. Now knowing what I know now after going through this several times you don’t know what you don’t know.
Now if she’s told you she wants space you should assume things are done at this point. I know it’s tough to hear and accept but having hope in your heart will only delay the work you need to put in.
Women lose attraction and respect because the power dynamic has shifted. Now sometimes people go through things and want to walk away to “figure themselves out” but in my opinion giving up a good relationship is not the way to go about that.
if she lost attraction and respect for you, you should be asking why and how this happened. One of those reasons could be complacency.
Many men are SERIOUSLY complacent and lazy. I’ve seen firsthand what men are literally capable of doing and thinking it’s normal. Men will often think “she will just stay with me no matter what ” and some of these men don’t even shower often.
seriously… There are men out there who don’t wash their assholes and think a woman will stay with you forever because of love.
Guys… you have to shower daily. Take care of yourselves. There is zero room for complacency in your life. ZERO!
I know it seems like I’m ranting… but so many guys are lazy and think women should just stay with them… whutt?
The other reason tends to be insecurity. This one is a huge attraction killer because why the fuck should a man be insecure?. well that’s what she is thinking. Now today’s narrative is that men should talk about their emotions with their women… NOOO!
men will begin talking to their ladies about their problems thinking that women give a flying fuck about that at all. women have their own shit to deal with. she doesn’t want to worry about your problems too and if you come to her about your problems she sure as shit doesn’t want to try to solve them for you as your mom would.
See fellas… many dudes treat their women like their mothers. Take care of me, please!! is what many dudes have going on in their heads
As a man, you have the responsibility to create whatever you want in this world. NOBODY is stopping you from creating anything. You can literally have whatever you want.
Nobody cares about your problems except you and it’s up to you to solve them. If you do feel like you need to talk about them get yourself a mentor and a therapist to talk these issues out.
If you expect your woman to give a shit about your issues and you aren’t trying to solve them… good luck keeping your relationship together. she will lose respect for your masculinity and go find a guy who does.
It’s the bitter truth and I know it sucks to read this and hear this but it’s the truth and it will set you free. Women want SELF-SUFFICIENT MEN who take care of themselves. women just want to show up in your life and have a great time.
If she asks for space you must WALK AWAY. Most men can’t walk away. During this time away you should be focusing on your improvement. We will be talking a lot about self-improvement on this blog.
It should be your default position. Whenever shit gets funky with anything in life go back to self-work and improvement. it’s literally your duty. (i said duty lol)
Walking away is hard
I have so many guys come and say ” this is hard man” yes it is!
That’s why most guys don’t do it. And since most don’t do it that will make you stand out. But you must truly mean it when you walk away.
Walking away creates attraction. especially when you are able to stand out from other men!
it’s a confident thing to do. Women that lost respect will think twice about letting you go fully. Sometimes women stick around a little while after they break up with you to breadcrumb you.
Many times a new guy has already entered her life and she’s keeping you around for backup anyways. You might as well do the strong thing and walk away after acknowledging your mistakes and things to work on.
Start no contact with her
This is a form of letting go and walking away to create attraction. When you start no contact you are communicating you aren’t going to stick around and wait for her
Many guys will try to throw logic at her so she can realize why she’s making a mistake. This is the wrong way to go about it. You need to do things that will make her feel she will be making a mistake.
Men who value themselves and their time will understand that there are plenty of other women out there.
If you sit around wondering when your ex is going to come back around you’re just communicating to her you don’t understand your own value!
She may even start saying things like “maybe we should be friends”
This is her way of saying “I’m no longer interested in keeping this relationship going at this level. Let me take a step back and see what else is out there and ill come back if I feel like it”
Many women will disagree with this statement but I think we can all agree that once two people cross that intimacy phase you can’t ever go back unless BOTH of you see that going into friendship is possible. One case in point is when two people have children together and then break up.
Even then many times one of those two people still wants a relationship. Of course, all my advice and knowledge doesn’t apply to EVERYONE in the world but it applies to most.
she no longer sees you as a priority.
That’s the bottom line here. When that happens you must go into monk mode and work hard on yourself and your understanding.
Walking away creates attraction in her and will get you some respect at least.
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Conclusion
Whenever someone walks away from you. They no longer value you in their eyes. There is nothing you can do to immediately change that and you must work on yourself and walk away
So many people overcomplicate situations because they want a certain outcome to happen.
I don’t really blame you for thinking that way but you need to train yourself to understand how to accept things as they come and then focus on growth at all times.
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