So just wanna let you guys know that no contact works. one of my students has been in the program for quite some time.
Right now he is dating. He took a couple of months to, you know, heal from the breakup, lick his wounds, read the Sedona method, let go of all the fears, let go of all the anxiety.
Now he started working on his money, started on his, started working on his female nature skills and attraction skills.
Once he focused there, he focused more on understanding more about himself and understanding more about what, he wanted to do for his purpose.
Now, I personally don’t think that your purpose really finds you… For some people it does, but I think, for a lot of people, you create it.
Right? So for example, I wanted to create a pretty big media company, right?
So I upload a lot of blog posts and focus on website stuff. And that’s what I’ve been doing for the last like three or four years.
Youtube has been part of it as well. I have a couple of YouTube channels, several YouTube channels actually. I don’t really work on them as much as I used to, but I still have them and they still bring in income.
So adding to the media company is my purpose right now. That’s what I get up and do every single day.
Do coaching calls with you guys and help you guys with relationship stuff. So that’s what I get up. And I do every day, there is no anxiety.
There’s no depression, there’s no sadness because I have something to do every day, something to build a brick to lay.
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So that’s what he started doing. Okay. Let’s just call him Sean, for the sake of the video. So Sean started working on his purpose and started showing up every single day he had a direction and a goal.
So I told him to write down what the person that you were like in five years walked into the room, what would they look like?
How would they talk? What would they say to you? What would they tell you to do? Because of me being 32, I’m gonna, I would say to my 27-year-old self, do what you are already about to do faster. And don’t deviate stick to the goal, stick to the plan, cuz I would’ve got to where I was.
So building this media company, I would’ve been there faster. That’s all. That’s the only thing I would change knowing that when he started focusing on that, he started seeing the way that he was acting, he was acting needy and he was acting very complacent and just almost a zombie through life.
Not no real direction, no real purpose. No real boom. He was just, I don’t know. Well, ghost, that kind of.
That kind of low energy that we talk about in the Sedona method. Ag flap cap. So ag flap, a G F L a P apathy grief, fear, lust, anger, and pride. Okay.
That’s what you’re gonna find in the book. Once he started shifting out of the red, into the blue zone, that’s when he started to realize the error of his ways with his ex, he started thinking, oh man, no wonder she lost traction for me.
no contact works when you start focusing on your own energy.
No wonder this relationship didn’t work out. Cuz now the girls that he’s dating are treating him just like he treated that girl.
They won’t stop bugging his phone. They won’t leave him alone. That’s the point. And once you realize that you can flip the script and completely change everything that is going to make you a way more confident, man.
First, you want to develop skills because you guys are lacking skills right now. The first skill is you guys don’t understand female nature. You guys need to understand women.
If you understand them, then you can go, okay, this is what you’re about to do. And you can anticipate moves like monopoly.
It’s very much like a video game.
When you understand the game, it’s a lot more fun. Then you want to understand attraction skills. So you can couple the female nature stuff with attraction. Then you have two pieces of the puzzle.
I need to focus on the way I look. The way I dress, the way I caught my hair, the way I carry myself. Cause it’s really all about your energy.
Once she feels your energy and the way that you are interacting with the world, she’ll want you inside her. She, as soon as you interact with her and you are that like that guy, you have that energy about you.
She’s going to say this guy is something else. She will realize that you’re different than most guys.
If you look up that chart. Most people are in the red/green zones. In this world like attracts like. The same vibe and the same energy are going to attract one another.
Female nature, and attraction skills, then your purpose is number three. And this is not in any particular order. I actually really want you to work on your purpose. First, create a purpose. If you do not have one then build a big goal.
So for example, my big goal is to Sell my media company, to another media company that wants to buy it up.
This happens all the time. So what do I want to exit for? I don’t know, definitely seven figures.
Okay. That’s my goal. So how I look at it the most expensive purchase in most people’s lives is their house. Right? Get that out of the way.
I might aim for 10 million, 20 million, or 50 million. That could be something I do down the road. All it takes is scaling it to a higher amount.
Right. But you know, right now I don’t have that kind of goal. I just have what I’m sticking to and we’ll see what happens. Pick something, get good at it, and stick to it!
I want you guys to push for that same kind of thing. Then what happens is women sort of become a secondary thing.
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You’re more focused on your purpose, your mission, and how you’re going about it every single day. You’re trying to fit her into it. Okay. I’m watching this guy go through this right now.
What are you doing with your energy and your focus? See, everybody has the same energy and time in the day. Well, not energy amount, but you and I have 24 hours, right? Some people are low-energy people. Some people are high-energy people.
You and I have the same 24 hours!!
How is it that certain people can get real success with women, with money, with business then other people can’t why is that? It’s because of where they’re putting their focus.
Some people have definitely been dealt a better hand than you sure.
So whatever I’ve done for myself, you can do too. Okay? There are so many things that you can do to optimize your looks and look and optimize your confidence in your energy and everything and how you present yourself.
When you optimize those things, you’ll start to see how people look at you. That’s the difference.
I want you to be able to choose.
How you look at the world matters and you will receive what you put out.
Taking your power back is all about where you put your energy and focus.
it’s really just, just start becoming the best you the best version of you get rid of all the stuff.
Just take a look at your energy and just put yourself out, back into the world and watch what happens.
It sounds oversimplified, but it’s True!, it’s crazy. I’ve done that. I’ve done the exact same thing. And I stopped giving a shit what people think because I’m gonna die someday.
Don’t get me wrong I know it matters to a degree what some people think of you because you want people to like you and whatever but the energy shifts when you focus on yourself completely.
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