When She Pulls Away, Mirror Her to Restore Attraction
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Then in a serious relationship, knows that women frequently,
Why do women pull away?
Any man who’s been in a serious relationship knows that women frequently pull away and create problems for no reason. When this happens.
The man’s natural instinct is to wonder why his girlfriend or wife is acting his way. Sometimes there are legitimate reasons for a woman’s behavior.
Yeah. Uh, sometimes again, a lot of guys come to me because they’ve been complacent for a little too long. So the woman’s trying to shake things up, trying to get him to be masculine again.
At other times, there’s no logical explanation except for a female predisposition towards emotional instability. Perhaps you’ve done something to upset her. Perhaps she woke up on the wrong side of the bed, or perhaps she’s testing you to see how you’ll respond.
whatever the reason might be. The most important thing a woman wants to know, is this, are you strong enough to handle her emotions or not?
Right guys? I would say a high percentage of you guys are, are not able to handle it. And I’m not trying to talk down to you. I’m telling you that you can, you can develop that strength.
You can develop that part of you, um, because a woman just wants to know that no matter how she acts, even if she, I look, we have to check women too.
Like when she acts funky and she’s out of she’s outta pocket, again, you need to be able to react correctly, which means walking away sometimes, right? She just wants to know that you’re not a. That’s really what it is.
If a woman’s acting moody or withdrawn, all the talking in the world, won’t bring her back to a place of joy and happiness, expressions of frustration and anger will only pour fuel on the situation.
As a woman comes to realize that she now has the power of you and your emotions in this situation, any attempt to play cater woman and sooth, she will be met with sharp resistance. Instead, it’s always better to mirror a woman’s emotions to neutralize her power.
You wanna act like that? Okay, cool. I’m gonna remove myself from this situation.
One of my ex-girlfriends was like that. So here’s the thing too, depending on the kind of woman that you’re dating and what, what her, what her, uh, emotional, the emotional ocean is like or emotional pool. If it’s wavy all the time, she’s, she’s unstable a lot. Then she’ll test more and she’ll do this to more people who have a good head on their shoulders.
Won’t do this nearly as much good stable women. So there’s also that to take into account that I don’t know if he’s gonna talk about in this video, but, um, this also can depend on the person you date, which just means you, you have to be able to handle those emotions.
Now, if you don’t want to, then don’t be in a relationship with a person like that. Right? Make sure you’re in a relationship that actually, um, you know, doesn’t cause emotional chaos and drama.
When a woman pulls away from you, you must also pull away when she grows distant and withdrawn.
When She Pulls Away, Mirror Her to Restore Attraction
You two must become distant and withdrawn. And when she pushes you away by being rude and disrespectful, simply withdraw your attention and refuse to empower her.
Imagine for a moment that a piece of string binds you to the woman you desire. Every time the string pulls tight, there’s sexual tension in the relationship in the same way.
When the string goes, slack, tension dies and attraction fades when the attraction fades. And there’s a loss of sexual interest, either you or the woman, preferably both must pull away from each other to bring sexual tension back into the relationship.
Just like, oh, why are women, like, why do women have to be like that? Right. That’s just their nature. It’s what they are. Take it up with God.
DON’T FREAK OUT WHEN SHE LEAVES!
But what I’m gonna tell you from my experience and my perspective, being with women before, and, and I’m with a woman now, but just when you’re with some, when you’re with a woman, the most important thing you can do is just not freak out.
That’s basically what this whole video’s about. Not freak out. If they wanna walk away cool. If they wanna be with you. Cool. It’s when we get too emotionally agitated, where is when, when that’s when we lose our and we, and our women don’t want to us to be like that, they don’t wanna see us like that. So if she acts up right, and sh say, if she’s in the wrong, if you are in the wrong, just I’ll fix it.
Cool. And just move on and actually fix the problem. Women wanna know that they can, you know, check you too.
So you have to have your own cuz a lot of guys in the comment section, think they’re perfect, right? Women are like, this women are like that.
It’s like, okay, are you a high value, man? See the thing, this is what it’s all about guys’ balance. And, and, and being able to check your ego and check yourself because a lot of the guys I talk to are the same guys that are hanging out in that comment, sections talking. Right?
And look with modern dating and you know, is, is up right now, okay. With all the Instagram and all that. But there are still good women out there. And that means that instead of talking in the comments, I don’t mean my videos.
I see other videos too guys, right? Work on yourself, go work on your mission and purpose. And that, that, and that’s really what it comes back down to because a lot of guys don’t actually have that.
A lot of guys don’t even know where to look or where to begin. And it’s something that you build. It’s not something that finds you. Okay? Yeah. Some, some days you, you know, some kids pick up a guitar, right? Sometimes people pick up a guitar, and that’s what they do for the rest of their lives. But most of the guys that I’ve done coaching calls with are, are pretty lazy, and scared.
They don’t have direction. Right. So that, and they, they, they don’t find their purpose because of that. Because sometimes the purpose is on the other side of some sort of difficulty.
FOCUSING ON YOUR MISSION!
Okay. So, so many people come to me like Kyle, I wanna make extra income. Right? So I tell them how, and then they’re like, they quit two months in cuz it’s hard. Right? I tell them, to buy their freedom first, make two K a month and then go and figure out what they wanna be doing every single day for the rest of their life.
This is what I could do every day for the rest of my life. I found that right. And I bought my freedom from, from this to explore other things. And I realized that this is what I like to do.
So that is what I’m seeing from my perspective. And, and some I’m just saying some of the guys want to talk about women, but you guys need to work on yourselves too. Women do too. Okay. My again, modern, modern women right now. That’s a whole other video, a whole other channel. Okay. But I’m just told, I’m just telling you guys, I can’t talk for some reason in this video, I’m just telling you guys to check yourselves and make sure you’re working on your mission and purpose focused, right?
When a woman pulls away or becomes emotionally distant, most men in a desperate attempt to Sue their anxiety, try to close the distance, thus making the string go, slack, killing all sexual tension and attraction in the process. Instead, when a woman pulls away, you must narrow her behavior and also pull away in response.
This wants more pulls the string tight, bringing sexual tension back into the relationship with force and vigor.
I can, again, I’ve done this before. Okay. Now a good relationship won’t have that happen often. That’s not even the point of the VI. The point of the video is him saying, look, when it does happen, you need to act right.
So having your, emotional center being cool, calm, and collected means your individual life is, is, is, is chill.
You’re making good money. You’re happy. You’re not dealing with problems with your family and friends, et cetera. So you’re cool. So when we talk about the Sedona method, for example, that’s ag flap cap, right?
So apathy, grief, fear, lust, anger, and pride. That’s the red area. The red stuff. Cap is blue courage, acceptance, and peace. When you’re in that, that stage of your life. That’s when you’re where you should be as an individual.
When you’re there. You’re cool. You’re calm. You’re collected. Nobody can bother you. That’s, that’s where you need to be. But the guys who chase and pursue they’re apathetic, they’re, they’re fearful. Okay. Um, lust, like the desire I need this because I’m not whole without it. Okay. So the link for his book will be in the description box. It’s an affiliate link. Yes. I will get paid if you buy it. But of course, this will help you big time with your attraction skills fellows. Okay.
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